ACTING ALL SUPERIOR?
Not me-e-e, girl
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IN IT’S SIMPLEST FORM, the opposite of self-hate is self-esteem. Since our Western culture is based a great deal on outer appearance, most people think that if you look & sound good, you must:
• have come from a nice, happy family background
• be happy, healthy & have good self-esteem (S.E.)
ACoAs believe that in spades. We assume that anyone who has OR seems to have personal qualities & a life style that we don’t (a variety of relationships, making $$, an education, travel…) – must have a positive sense of identity. Actually, there’s a big difference between true self-esteem & the facade of it. Various defense mechanisms can mimic it, especially narcissism.
Self Esteem is NOT….
1. …. based solely…
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